How can you create change-able relationships? What is a change-able relationship? In this episode of The Apple Flavored Pomegranate, hosts Justin and Tonya Dawn Recla welcome this topic to show couples all about how to navigate change in relationships. Change can be scary, and sometimes difficult. But this episode will show you how to prepare for the rocky road to come. Tune in today to learn all about the benefits of creating change-able relationships!
From Oneness to Wholeness How can you shift from oneness to wholeness? What’s the difference between the two? In this episode of The Apple Flavored Pomegranate, hosts Justin and Tonya Dawn Recla introduce the topic from oneness to wholeness, and how to make that shift in your life. The couple shares their journey with writing their vows, and agreeing to walk each other into oneness. They discuss breaking boxes in your relationship, and so much more. Tune in today to learn all about how to dance in between oneness and wholeness. Tonya Dawn Recla: Hello, everyone, and welcome back to Apple Flavored Pomegranate. I'm Tonya Dawn Recla here with my beautiful husband. Justin Recla: Hello, everybody, Justin Recla here. The Husband. Tonya Dawn Recla: Husband, that's cool. Like we're talking a lot about labels and identities and stuff in our existence and boxes. I [...]
How can we start cultivating creativity for coupling success? In this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate, co-hosts Tonya Dawn and Justin Recla talk about coming together as a couple in the name of creativity. Each person is creative in their way. But, when two people are combined as one, creativity flourishes even more. This applies to how couples do parenting, handle their business, and go on with their lives. Tune in to know how cultivating creativity is effective not only for coupling success but also forging confident communities.
How can couples practice coming together in times of chaos? In this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate, hosts Tonya Dawn Recla and Justin Recla talk about staying together amid chaos. They say that the only way to change a relationship is to realize that we are bigger than we think and allow the channel of creativity to flow on both sides. Relationships should also be a haven not just for couples but also for the whole family. Tune in to know how to turn your relationship into a solid foundation in coming together in times of chaos.
How can clear and considerate communication help couples get through negativities? In this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate, hosts Tonya Dawn Recla and Justin Recla talk about the other elements that go well with communication. Sometimes, it is not enough to only communicate what you think in a relationship. It is important that we should mix it up with a dash of clearness and being considerate. This beautiful process is interconnected with each other. This means that the clearer you are with what you say, the more considerate you get. Tune in to know how clear and considerate communication should start from within.
Did you know that there is a dance of masculine and feminine underneath marriage? In this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate, Tonya Dawn Recla and Justin Recla continue their conversation on marriage from the previous episode. They talk about the pink and blue tasks or the feminine and masculine roles and how they vary from couple to couple. The said roles are very fluid; however, at the same time, they also teach us to be solid — how to hold both ends by being soft and firm. Tune in to know more about the dynamics of the dance of masculine and feminine in relationships as the discussion goes way beyond the talk of gender roles.
In this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate, hosts Tonya Dawn Recla and Justin Recla revolve their conversation around the term “marriage” and its potential to be a force multiplier in our existence. What do we mean by marriage as a force multiplier? When couples learn to lean on and uplift one another, they become powerful. Thus the relationship container should be built by both parties hand-in-hand. Tune in to hear more about this discussion as Justin shares a poem about marriage as a force multiplier.
What if your relationship were to become a threesome? In this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate, Justin and Tonya Dawn Recla will tell you more about the episode’s mind-boggling title. It is not about the desire to bring other people into a relationship. Instead, it explains that a relationship is another separate entity in a connection. Just like a corporation, it has a character of its own. When we start to look at relationships this way, magical opportunities happen. Tune in to have an in-depth understanding of what to do when your relationship becomes a threesome.
Why should couples understand that consideration is key to a good relationship? In this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate, Justin and Tonya Dawn Recla talk about the significance of consideration through the lens of couples. We often think that communication will suffice in achieving the harmonious relationship we want. However, we fail to realize the need for the magic pill called consideration. How is the other person receiving this? What is their worldview? What might result from speaking this into this specific space at this particular time? That’s what consideration is! Tune in to know more about the discussion and other relevant tips, such as why consideration is key to having great sex.
What is CEFA for couples? In this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate, hosts Justin and Tonya Dawn Recla talk about Creative Energy Field Activation, or CEFA, a multidimensional awakening modality. Held within it is an activation process, an assessment tool, an energetic resourcing practice, a vibrational coherence technique, and an alchemical transmutation protocol. Because of CEFA, people report a direct experience of their divine nature and connection to the source, allowing them to feel an elevated connection to the world and all within it. Tune in to know how CEFA provides benefits for couples.
Finding ‘I’ in ‘We,’ what does that mean and how can you discover the real you when with another person? In this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate, Tonya Dawn and Justin Recla talk about dedicating one’s existence to walking toward oneness together. Walking the path as separate individuals is not as satisfying as walking together. Through collaboration, we allow for the developmental process of each person involved. Also, it provides that the “WEness”factor be present in a relationship to evolve. Tune in to know how to find your I in We.
What is the yummy power in riding ecstasies? Justin and Tonya Reclas start a delectable conversation in this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate episode. It is all around riding ecstasies. Justin shares a poem to suspend your disbelief about what's possible in a relationship. According to both of them, there's no right or wrong in a relationship. There's no one way to do it, but the beautiful part is when you come together and create it together. Tune in to know how riding ecstasies is relevant to forging good relationships.
How can we work on finding peace together in our relationships? In this episode of The Apple Flavored Pomegranate, Justin and Tonya Dawn Recla talk all about the absolute importance of meeting in the middle and opening our hearts to one another. Sometimes in the chaos of the world, it can be difficult to find peace with those we love. But when we step into the middle, it can be one of the easiest things we do. The couple shares a poem from Rumi: Bridge to the Soul: Journeys Into the Music and Silence of the Heart to further emphasize the power we gain when we find peace together. Tune in now to learn all about the power of finding peace, together.
What is the connection compounding factor? In this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate, Justin and Tonya explain Connection Compounding Factor. They saw that so many more people are involved in their connections – family dynamics and organization. They invest in the four layers of connection discussed in the last episode, notably their close relationships and sexual and sensual connections. As a result, exponential impact occurs as each layer becomes increasingly electrified because energetic interactions differ from physical world engagements. Listen to the episode to learn more about the connection compounding factor.
Do you believe that sex and sensuality are two inseparable things? Host Tonya Dawn and Justin Recla continue where they left off in the last episode by discussing the two more levels of connection. The conversation revolves around the space of intimacy, and step ten is indicated in the Think and Grow Rich book, “Riches is Sex Transmutation.” It means that sex goes far beyond the act itself, beyond being sexual. Tune in to understand the process of drawing closer to the Divine and delve into the realms of commitment towards oneness in sex and sensuality.
Are you aware of the different levels of connection within the cosmos? In this episode of Apple Flavored Pomegranate, host Gabriel Cousens, M.D., shares how connected we are in the womb and that the cosmos is all about connection. The universe begins as one, and an ego-centric life is the opposite of a relationship. In connection with this, couples have greater longevity, happiness, health, and life satisfaction if they observe the five levels of the soul leading to 5 levels of connectedness. Tune in to practice the critical action at different levels of connectedness.
What is love? In this episode of The Apple Flavored Pomegranate, Tonya Dawn and Justin Recla dive into a passage from ‘A Course in Miracles’ all about love. The two talk about what love means to them and why it is so important. Love is a construct that can be highly confusing to some, and crystal clear to others. We all have an opportunity to identify what it is on our own. Tune into The Apple Flavored Pomegranate to answer the question, what is love?
In this episode of the Apple Flavored Pomegranate, called “then there were two,” Justin and Tonya Dawn Recla share their love through poetry. The two dive into Atticus Poetry and discuss how our words paint a picture of our feelings towards others we are in relationship with. They show how when you are in a relationship, you get to find a healthy balance with the other person as you go on your journey in oneness. Tonya and Justin share their story of finding their balance together. Tune in as they take a deep dive into the topic then there were two!
What is the true purpose of this show in the beginning? How can it relate to couples’ relationships with each other? In this episode of The Apple Flavored Pomegranate, hosts Tonya Dawn Recla and Justin Recla sit together as a couple to talk about the mission of this show. The Apple Flavored Pomegranate encompasses your relationship with the divine, yourself, spouse, and all the multiple layers within each of those constructs. Tune in as Tonya and Justin delve deeper into the culmination of all the learnings about our respective relationships.
Is it possible to attain a place in relationship where two become one? Is it just a pretty phrase we use or something more? In this episode of The Apple Flavored Pomegranate, hosts Justin and Tonya Dawn Recla explore this alchemical idea from a variety of angles. They submit that the practice is possible and experiencing oneness transforms a great relationship into a miraculous one. Be sure to experience this powerful episode that reminds all of us to go deeper than the physical.