Welcome, everyone. This is Jennifer Urezzio. I’m a Super Power Expert, founder of the Soul Language. This is SuperPowers of the Soul.
Today, I’m with Jenny Fenig and we’re talking about touch more with your spiritual messages.
Welcome, Jenny.
Thanks, Jennifer. Always fun to hang out with a Jennifer.
Yes, agree. I know so many Jennifer’s that we just use our initials now to talk to each other.
Yes, yes.
I always love to start with this first question, which is what is the superpower of your soul? What I want is the superpower that you utilize for yourself rather than for others. They might be the same thing, but I really want to know you from your soul’s perspective, not at the moment about your service to others.
Yeah. Such a profound question. The superpower of my soul is my soul is a rebel. My soul is gutsy. My soul allows me to take leaps and make moves that are in alignment with my highest truth and gets me to where I’m meant to be. I know that for many these moves that I make would feel terrifying to them, but for me it’s one of those. Well, why wouldn’t you do that? Let’s go.
Yeah, I feel the same way. I often get the question from clients and from community like, “Okay, so you created this thing. How did you trust it? How did you go about it?” I was like, well, there was no choice. I felt like I was going downhill with on a bike. There was no other option. I don’t mean that from a judgmental point of view, but that was the road I was on and I was going to go through it no matter what.
Yes.
Yep. I call that the renegade. You call that the rebels. We both have that in common, that kind of spirit of getting out our gumption and moving through it with grace.
Yes. The only way to live. I get not everyone’s wired in this way, but I am.
Yeah. There’s no judgment on either of our parts, but we wouldn’t be able to just sit on the sidelines and not do anything.
Yeah.
What do you consider your sacred purpose? Again, we define in Soul Language your sacred purpose as something you’re profoundly here to experience and then offer that experience to others. What do you consider your sacred purpose?
To love unconditionally.
Everything I do is an expression of love.
Yeah. I think when people hear that and they get that kind of information about their purpose, love, peace, truth. I think they often think, “Oh my god, that’s so big.” It doesn’t make sense. What I’m going to do with that? I always go, those are profound ones. You just need to find your secret sauce of that big topic and understand how you want to express it in the world. That’s your sacred purpose. How that is reflected in the work that you do with others?
Everything I do is an expression of love. When I share something on social media, email, like wherever, in a live gathering, it’s because I have this love in my heart for the work and for the people. It’s so important to remember this because for a lot of women in my community, they’re afraid. They’re afraid to put themselves out there. They’re afraid to speak this truth. They’re afraid to go sell this because what if somebody doesn’t buy it or what if somebody who doesn’t like it or what if somebody says something means?
When you can come back and simply remember that sharing is caring, sharing is you sharing your love for your audience, for the people who need this information and to trust that if only one person needed to hear what you had to say today, but that thing deeply impacted that person and they made some kind of shit, they had a difficult conversation, they decided to click on that thing and sign up for this invitation, this offer, then you’ve done your job. When we can come back to this whole idea of like what we do is loving people, then we don’t need to sit there and over analyze or hold back and hide out these creations that we have or these ideas that we have because it’s simply us loving the people, loving the world.
Exactly. I think that’s really important. So often we need to do that without attachment, which means that your existence, which you are, your essential nature is not going to be impacted by what they say or what they do with the information.
Yes.
Right? I think when people have a lot of less attachment, I remember as you were talking, I remember when I first started doing readings and people would ask me over to their house and I would do readings and I would get paid. I didn’t really have any attachment. You know? I just spoke. When you have to start putting yourself out there in a big way, the attachment grows. I remember this woman still comes back to me and it’s been like, been 10 years. She said, “I still remember that session you gave me and at the time I was in such resistance over it.” She goes, “But that information supported me over the next several years.” I think that’s really key, and I think we all need in our back pockets that kind of little, not little, but those times that are a reinforcement of our truth. When we are feeling low or we get stuck, we can pull them out and go, okay, let’s remember this.
Yes, absolutely. I actually have a folder in my email inbox. I think it’s called love notes or something like that. When we get feedback from women in our community, I’d stick it in there. I have a box, a physical box in my office. I often get cards in the mail from clients, women I’ve worked with through the years, and I stick them in there. It’s important that we hold on to those testimonials not only to kind of mirror back to us the power of the work, but also to support the growth of the work. We put that up on sales pages or however we’re presenting and promoting the work. Yeah, it’s important to realize you might not totally know how something is going to touch someone, but when we do get that feedback, to learn how to receive that. It’s a whole another area that I find.
My audience is women, but I find there’s a struggle there around receiving. They’re unable to do it. Someone will say, “I really appreciated your whatever,” and women will deflect that, “I love your thing too.” It can be as simple as somebody complimenting your outfit or your hair. We feel like we have to instantly give them something back. It’s like, “No. Okay. let me give you something.” I want everyone to take that in, the power of receiving. I’m doing a lot of that work with my clients right now. It’s easy and safe and fun for me to receive because this is so much the root of us growing what we’re here to grow. If we’re not able to receive, we’re in trouble.
You are enough as you are.
Yeah. Especially with people like you and me who aren’t creating business. Who are creating a hundred year movements. We’re big givers, but we have to receive more than we give because there are so many cogs in our wheels that we need to really relearn to nurture and receive so then we can support others. Before our break, I want to ask one last question. What has been a common theme that your soul has shared with you throughout your journey?
That I am enough.
Yeah, that’s a good one. All I want to do is mic drop. There’s nothing to say after that, right? I think that’s a constant theme and I think that’s also something that you probably turn to again and again and again.
Yeah. I mean, I have major issues around not knowing that, not believing that growing up. If we have shame in our past, if we have trauma, it’s hard to go through life without something touching us and perhaps giving us like these kind of negative impressions. But it’s easy to take in that message, you’re good enough, you’re not smart enough, you weren’t “x” enough.
My work and what my soul is always reminding me of is you are enough. You are enough as you are. That doesn’t mean that I don’t like to read more and become stronger in this area or that area, but my soul always tells me you are enough as you are. The right people who are meant to be in your world always get that. They always get that.
Exactly. Before we do our break here, how do people get in touch with you? Give out your website address.
Thank you. Yeah, home base is my name, JennyFenig.com. Come on over there. We’ve got lots of blog posts. I also have a podcast, lots of resources for you. Come on over and say hello.
Beautiful. Okay, everyone, stay tuned because we’re going to be back and talking about touch more with your spiritual messages.
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