Do you know how to move past the pain pattern? In this episode of Evolution: A Pathway to Infinite Possibilities, host Jewels Arnes is joined by co-host Denise Kilonsky as they talk about the ways to evolve past the pain pattern. Jewels and Denise also share their thoughts about the difficulty of shifting reality when we are in pain as our reality is created by what we focus on. Join Jewels and Denise in today’s episode and discover how you can move past the pain pattern.
Blessings, soul family. This is Jewels, and this is Evolution: A Pathway to Infinite Possibilities. And my co-host today is Denise. Welcome, Denise.
Hi, Jewels. Thanks for having me.
Absolutely. So if you all want to learn more about Denise, go to the Superpower Expert Network, and she has an episode under Cosmic Consciousness, and you can learn all about her and her brilliance.
But Denise is a Decu practitioner, an Omcodes practitioner, and a certified Decu teacher. She has just been on this amazing journey, and we’re just so thrilled to have her continue to play with us as we self-discover in really reprogramming to the evolution of mankind.
So today, we’re going to talk about the pain pattern because pain is one of those things that when we are in it, it’s really hard to shift the reality around being in pain because reality is created by what we focus on. And when we’re in pain, it’s really hard not to focus on that. So we’re going to kind of dive into that, but I know you have a really personal story about pain yourself, so I’m going to let you share that.
Many, many years ago, back in the, I guess, the early 90s, I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia, and this was back before they really had a diagnosis for it. All I knew was I felt like a shattered china cup that you could just touch and it would shatter into a million pieces. I was exhausted all the time. My body was exhausted, and it was in so much pain. I mean, it hurt. It literally hurt for somebody to touch me.
And I went through the medical system. They gave me pain medication and all that. But after about a year, it’s like, “I can’t live like this. I’ve got to find what’s going on within me that’s causing all of this pain, and I need to deal with it so I can heal my body.” And I was blessed to find energy healing. And so over the years, I’ve learned newer modalities to just perfect what I do.
But the good news, for me, is that because of energy therapy just restoring the flow of energy in my body, within less than a month, eradicated the pain, and medication can’t do that. Doctors were sending me to the psychologist because they thought it was all up in my head. And I used to get so angry. It’s like, “I am not crazy. This pain is real, right?”
But now, as I’ve evolved into the Decu process, and as you teach us, we are not our thoughts. We’re not our mind. And in everything that we think, the reality that we see is all an illusion. So, and I’ve been dealing with some pain this week, just low back pain. I’m spending too much time sitting at my desk. But what I’ve been asking myself is, “If all of this is an illusion, the reality that my programmed mind doesn’t really exist, does the pain exist?”
And then I would notice that if I took a nap or something just to relax my back, put some heat on it, the pain didn’t exist while I was sleeping. So what reality am I existing in? The one where the pain exists, and it’s slowing me down and making me focus on the pain, or the one when my conscious mind goes to sleep, and the subconscious takes over and the pain disappears?
So it’s just been interesting playing in that frequency of that reality and moving my consciousness into the reality that I want to create, the one more pain can… I can focus on the pain and it can just… I mean, it has a message for me. No doubt. It has a message for me. So I ask, “What is your message? What is it you want me to see? Is there something that I’m not feeling or dealing with? What is it you want for me to know?”
And I take the time to just sit with it, but what most of us do is we want the pain to stop. Just go away. Just go away like a pesky gnat or fly that you want to shoo away. And when we do that, we rob ourselves of the message that it has for us.
So we do have to take the time, listen to the body, listen to the wisdom. What is it wants me to know? And then if we can sit with that, then the next time the pain shows up, I’m starting to develop a cellular memory where my body knows, “I know how to get her attention. I’ll just be a pain in her backside.” And so, yes, I listen, but I’d like to get to the point where I can maybe be ahead of it, but oftentimes, it’s because I’m too busy, and I’m not taking the time for myself.
So, don’t rush through the process, which is what I’m trying to tell our listeners. Don’t rush through the process, honor your body, honor the wisdom that it’s trying to communicate, and just sit with it and know that there’s a reality beyond the pain. And that’s the evolution that we’re talking about today, so…
I want to say that it’s the pain pattern and evolution of pain, and there’s so much that I want to continue to move into, and I just want to tap back into that space of when the pain is there, there’s something to be seen. And then once we see what that is, we have the opportunity to neutralize that space by no longer resisting what it is that is being shown to us.
And a lot of times, if we can move into that space of neutrality, the pain will disappear because, at that point there, it can’t exist. If the frequency is neutralized, it doesn’t exist anymore.
So we’re going to just have a lot of fun with this. We’re going to take a quick break. And when we get back, we’re just going to move in and just really dive into the fun stuff.Â
But if you would like to play with Denise, she has her Thursday Decu live face readings, Decu Body Readings, in our private Facebook group which is eternalfrequency.co. And you can get to know her better, just see how brilliant she is and just kind of play in her space. We’ll be right back.
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