ERR – Expectation of Reciprocated Respect – Case Study #2
Case Study #2
ERR – Expectation of Reciprocated Respect
Empathic Reciprocity – the return of empathy for empathy (I.e. “How I consider your thoughts or feelings, so you should consider mine.”) typically unspoken and assumed and ALWAYS faulty because everyone processes signals differently. Take, for instance, the difference between how someone predisposed to mind reading and someone not predisposed to mind reading process thought energy. Add on top of that the Evolution Playground each person is currently playing in and you have quite the mix for confusion, failed expectations and potential hurt feelings.
Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt
Traditional Mindset
Oh my gosh, that’s totally me. I have so many great ideas. Like that one time I had that idea about the new app that would make me millions. That was such a great idea. And I remember I told Bob about it and at first he told me it was a foolish idea. But then he kept asking me more questions and I had all these great ideas about it and so I told him… all of them. Well, of course, that back-stabber Bob, that’s what we call him now, Backstabber Bob, ended up going to that fancy tech school and meeting Bobette and now they run that tech company. And they just made an app, probably based on all of my ideas. Because, like I told you, I have a lot of great ideas.
Evolved Consciousness
(the new average) Now I completely understand. After I started on my journey, I realized that Bob really did me a favor. Because if he hadn’t stolen my idea, then I may have tried to create that app instead of taking a year to go to Barbados. While I was there, I spent a lot of time working through the story and wounds I have around everyone taking my ideas. With the help of my spiritual teacher there (and some choice substances) I was able to find a pattern of all of these times in my life when I told people information and they went on to create something great with it. Then I realized that I’m like a prophet. I get these great ideas and I’m just supposed to tell them to other people so they can create something with them. I can remember so many times in this lifetime and many others when I just happen to be with someone and my guides tell me to gift them with a brilliant idea and release it to them. It feels so good to do my work watching others doing their work in the world. I know I have a long way to go in processing through all of my stories and integrating the wounds, but I keep walking my path.
Abstract Frequency
I’m done discussing. Let’s build.