Do you want to break the power of your subconscious stories? Are you satisfied with what you do right now? In this episode of Your Superpowered Mind, host Kristin Maxwell and guest Dr. Francis Yahia talk about creating subconscious patterns. Kristin and Dr. Francis also tackle how recognizing the subconscious stories results in a series of situations that help people meet their unmet needs. Listen now and discover Dr. Yahia’s 4-step model using your origin story to integrate your shadow aspects and your life.
Kristin Maxwell:
Hello, everyone. Welcome to Your SuperPowered Mind. I’m your host, Kristin Maxwell. And in this show, we explore the process of transformation and give you tools and strategies that you can use to transform your own life.
Today, I’m very excited to be talking to Dr. Francis Yahia about how to own the stories of your subconscious. And I’m really excited about this topic today because I think if just about everybody listening understands that our subconscious powers so much of who we are and how we show up in the world, and I think we’re going to learn some very interesting stuff today from Dr. Francis.
Dr. Francis Yahia is a mental health counselor, Akashic records reader, archetypal, archetypal, I say that wrong, astrologer and college professor. She has combined universal laws, metaphysical mythology, and astrology to create theories and tools that help our clients heal subconscious wounds and generational trauma. Okay, how fascinating is that?
Anyway, Dr. Francis, welcome to Your SuperPowered Mind.
Dr. Francis Yahia:
Thank you, Kristin. Great to be here.
Kristin Maxwell:
Thank you. My first question is always what superpower did you uncover as the result of mastering your mind?
Dr. Francis Yahia:
I can say that my superpower is that I have cracked the code of the psyche.
Kristin Maxwell:
Ooh, that’s very cool. Say more. Say more.
Dr. Francis Yahia:
So what I’ve developed is a four-step model that explains the subconscious. At the moment of conception, we are all conceived on an impure thought. This impure thought is sort of like a secret arrangement that we have with our parents, that we are going to keep that secret impure thought in a vault, and we are going to create our entire life on that thought.
Let me go further. So the first step of the subconscious, a moment of conception, you get absolutely everything that is going to be your entire life. The second stage of the subconscious happens during pregnancy. In pregnancy, we get what we call our language of love, which is based on a conditional version of love.
So we were told two pretty big lies. The first lie is that our parents would love us unconditionally. No one has been or ever will be loved unconditionally. That’s an inside job and purpose of the lifetime. The second lie that we were told is that our parents will meet our needs. We’re actually born to meet our parents’ needs.
So what happens is this secret language in the subconscious development during pregnancy, step two, is we learn this sort of secret language of how, when we’re born, we’re going to go about trying to get our needs met, and it’s nobody’s job, but your own to meet your needs. So it keeps us in a childlike mentality and our relationships suffer because we think it’s someone else’s job to meet our needs because we learn that in pregnancy, in the womb.
The third stage of subconscious development is actually the birth process. This determines how we’re going to transition into life cycles, in particular, our sexuality and, most importantly, our death out of the body. All transitions in our lives are guided by the exact birth process and what the psyche developed as the understanding and the programming that we should transition into life, and we have to reprogram this.
Lastly, the fourth stage of subconscious development happens from zero to seven after birth. We get what I call a shattered snow globe. At one point during zero to seven, we learn that we are not loved unconditionally and that we’re not fully accepted in our family snow globe, so to speak, exactly as we are. This creates ego development, separateness from the whole, and we feel as if now we have to hide our true selves and go about life masking ourselves so that no one figures out that we’re unlovable and unworthy.
By zero to seven, we have what I call our personal mythology. So now you have your costumes, your location, the characters in your story, and you will continue living this story out for the entire remainder of your life, until you learn to master the story and understand who’s playing what role and how to rewrite that.
Kristin Maxwell:
That was amazing there. You said so much there, I was scribbling notes as fast as I could because I want to come back and ask you.
We are going to have to, I’m just going to go to break right now because rather than get you started on explaining more about how it is that we own our stories or subconscious stories, so we’re going to go to a break. But before we go, can you let people know where they can learn about you and find you to learn more about this?
Dr. Francis Yahia:
Sure. My website is the best resource, Dryahia.com. And that’ll lead you to my social media, free workbooks, my YouTube channel that’s loaded with free videos, etc.
Kristin Maxwell:
Great. Thank you so much. Hang on, everybody. I’m talking to Dr. Francis Yahia. I’m Kristin Maxwell, and we’ll be right back.
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