How do we allow ourselves to love harder? In this episode of Disrupt Reality, host Tonya Dawn Recla shares the Love Harder IM Series where we discover how to shift from looking at love as an emotion to actually embodying it so we can love harder. This series highlights how to look at the highest aspect of who we are through love and seeing all the different facets of it. Tune into this episode and the newest IM Series to discover how you can love harder!
Hello everyone. This is Tonya Dawn Recla your Super Power Expert. And I’m excited about this episode. We’re talking today about the next IM Series, Love Harder. One of our favorite phrases, one of our favorite mantras, one of our favorite campaigns here. This idea of love harder really stems from this where do we pull from? Where do we go to? Where do you get the chutzpah to push through and love even when it’s the last thing we want to do? And I don’t know about you all, but over these last few months, we’ve heard a lot of reports from folks that one of the greatest blessings in everything that everyone’s experienced, it runs the gamut has been this appreciation for being able to find that place of love. That real connection of love.
And getting real about that and getting real about what it takes to get there, and what it takes to hold it. And what it takes to make that choice, even when you don’t want to. And so it inspired this whole concept around love harder even when times, especially when times are tough, especially when it’s the last thing you want to do. That’s where we should lean into it. And so that fuels this series and it’s really near and dear to our hearts. We have shirts in the shop with love harder.
It’s just whatever we can do to remind ourselves that it matters. What we choose in every moment matters. And we get to choose if we’re going to kind of come from fear and feed old stories and old paradigms that even stem from fear. Maybe we don’t even identify them as fear anymore. But they came from a place of fear of not enough, of scarcity, of security, of the obligation of whatever you want to call it. And all of that gets to get re-imagined as soon as we can see it differently. And so love is no exception to that.
We’re going to talk here, we’ll take a quick break and then after that, we’ll come back and I’ll share a little bit about as with all of our IM Series, there are three weeks of messages air each week, and you can get those on our site. So we’ll talk more after the break. But for now, if you’re interested in getting this kind of information, it’s free, folks. It’s free training for you. It’s free information. It is our gift to you. They’re videos and we always offer other resources. Really if you’re wanting to kind of expand and extend into new spaces and transform and perhaps improve your existence, or maybe you’re here to make a difference. And you just want to kind of know more about what that looks like and how you want to go about that, and how do you know what you’re here to do and all of that fun stuff. Those are the things that we talk about in those series.
You can get them if you go to superpowerexperts.com and you find the messages tab, and you enter your email there and we’re happy to send those to your inbox each week to make sure you don’t miss one. They build on each other. And it’s great to just inspire you to continue throughout your week in a different way, making different choices that really matter. And have an impact on how you get to experience the world and how you get to experience others in this world. So stay with us and we’ll come back after this break and talk more about our upcoming IM Series, Love Harder. You don’t want to miss it. Stay here.
Awesome. We’re back. I am Tonya Dawn Recla and we’re talking today about love harder. It’s our latest IM Series we have coming up here and these are video training like I mentioned before the break that we offer to those folks who maybe have been listening to the podcast network for a long time and they want to go a little bit deeper into the study of the work or maybe they’re just finding us through that and the topic interested them. And just know that this is what we exist to do. Our mission is to support the folks who are here to have an impact on the world and those who have the courage to transform themselves, to evolve themselves, to develop themselves, to walk more closely in alignment with the highest aspect of who they are.
And there are all kinds of ways that we describe that. And in this series, we look at it through love and we look at all different facets of love. We start off in the first message with power partnering and really looking at the foundational components of partners, maybe parents, spouses, whatever it might be. And it may not just be two people, but how we come together in a foundational way to say, “Look, it can’t just be about what I want.” My development is all about me and my path. But as we come together and family units or pairs or tribes, or the collective, we have to start learning how to take two individuals, two aspects and bring them together to create something new. We’ve been doing this for eons and birthing children.
So it’s not a concept that’s new to us, but have we ever really stopped to think about how does that works, and should we just know how to make that work? And maybe not everybody chooses to go to love first and then how do we deal with that and all of that good stuff? And so that’s what we tackle in that first message and we come at it from the practical standpoint of, okay, let’s say that we want to choose a strategy of loving first, of loving harder. What does that look like? How do you hold people accountable for that? How do you hold yourself accountable for that? How do you even know what the agreements are there? What does that mean? And so we’re going to talk about that in that first message.
And then from there, we’re going to go on to look at the difference between emotions and attitudes. And this is really, really important because taking this pledge of loving harder, of loving more, of being that light in the world requires that we have some tools in our tool belt to say, “Okay, what about what I just don’t want to or when I kind of forget that I have that budget? I’m going to do that with everybody except that one person because they just annoy me too much.”
How do we amp ourselves up? How do we support ourselves and make sure that we can stick to the things that we say we want? Because it ultimately serves what we believe to be the path that we’re on. Those are important ways to go about it. And so if we can’t understand the difference between when we really feel like loving somebody versus when we’ve adopted a strategy of that as the basis upon which we choose to view them suffice to say that’s that starting point. And it looks at it from the lens of building on that power partner conversation. Because it frames it up in a way that really initially feels disempowering.
But trust me when I say it’s the most empowering stance you can take with it because you get to have some management of the energies that you’re sending off of the communication that you’re using so that you can start informing much more intentionally your relationships in the world that you’re creating around you by virtue of those relationships. A really powerful distinction. I’m going to encourage you to make sure that you listen to that one and watch that one, and get your pen and paper handy. Because that shift is that start to lay the foundation for what I believe to be one of the most dramatic shifts you can make in your existence. And that’s what we talk about in the third message, which is the frequency of love.
If you can shift from looking at love as an emotion, as a feeling, as an obligation, and instead really tap into feel first, perceive of and then really embody, learn how to embody. That’s a whole other course, but just at least perceiving the frequency of love and how that informs our entire existence, then you will understand why I’m so passionate about saying that’s the most significant shift you can make in this lifetime. If you’ve made that shift, great. Look at it as a refresher, because guaranteed there are areas of your life where you’re not holding that frequency in all ways, in all things.
And so connect with us in that space, that’ll help. That’ll help foster that a little bit more. And if you have no idea what we’re talking about, then make sure you catch this. Because it may frame it up in a way that you’ve never experienced before, you never heard about before. And it’s an important distinction to make. So you’re not going to want to miss any aspect of this series, folks. It really is a game-changer for those of you who know you’re here to have an impact, or you just want your life to change. You want to start seeing this world that you know is possible, but you haven’t really seen materialized yet.
Trust me when I say that it is possible and you can get there. So go to superpowerexperts.com, go to messages and put your email in there so we can get these messages to your inbox. And make sure you join us for the entire series and watch that through. We’re going to get you some information that I guarantee will have a positive impact on your life. But until next time folks, we love you. We do. We appreciate you. We appreciate you sharing the network with those folks who could really use hope right now. Make sure you get that out to them. And until next time, take care of yourselves, take care of each other. Goodbye for now. We love you all.
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