Hello everyone and welcome to the Sex, Love and SuperPowers podcast show. I am your host, Tatiana Berindei and today I have a delightful couple with me, Kevin Anthony and Celine Remy and we are going to be discussing the road to sexual mastery. I’m so excited for this conversation. There’s going to be so much good juice in here, I just know it. Let me tell you a little bit about them before we dive in. Kevin Anthony and Celine Remy are a husband and wife team who teach real sex for real people. They’ve been helping men and women have better sex and deeper intimacy for over 15 years and are on a mission to create a worldwide movement of true sexual empowerment.
They are the creators of Power and Mastery, the most complete sexual stamina training for men and are the hosts of the Love Lab Podcast, a weekly show on Love, Sex and Relationship. Welcome to the show.
Hi Tatiana, hi everyone.
Thanks for having us on.
Absolutely. So what I like to do with couples, I always ask people what their superpowers are, but with couples, I like to hear what your individual superpowers are and then what the superpower is of the entity that is created when the two of you come together in a couple. So, whoever wants to go first, what are your superpowers?
Well, we thought it would be kind of cool to answer each other’s superpowers.
Oh, fun.
What are the things that I think is one of Celine’s superpowers is that when it comes to the work that she does with people, she brings in this shame-free attitude towards sex that just instantly makes people feel more at ease. More ease in their bodies, more at ease with their sexuality, more at ease in their relationships. And it really enables people to open up and really do the work.
And when it comes to Kevin’s superpower, I’d like to say that Kevin brings his sword of truth everywhere he goes. And he has the ability to take these really complex things and make them simple and easy to understand. And I have to say that Kevin, I call him a master cock because he’s ability to use his body and he’s really mastered his ability to use his penis, his cock, and like make love not just with his cock but with his entire body, heart, mind, and soul.
Wow. Thank you.
We’re in the right line of work.
And then I said that the entity has a couple that we bring together is a super powerful place. What we’ve noticed is, every time people spend time with us, they feel inspired and uplifted and it’s fascinating because we’ve witnessed that with so many of either just friends or clients that work with us. We come into a space and we have this ability to transform the heavy, the pain, the shadow, because that’s what most people carry all the time with them. I’d be like, let’s shed some light and let’s bring pleasure and people do a whole 360 or 180, whatever it is, like total turn and then they feel inspired to focus on the positive and the pleasure again.
I love it. I can feel it radiating off of you too. So, like I said to our listeners, you’re in for a tree today. We’re going to talk about some good stuff, and I love that you two shared each other’s superpowers. Do you feel resonant with what the… does each feel resonant with what the other person shared?
Oh absolutely.
I’ll take that one, yes.
Totally. I do.
Beautiful. So sweet. So, I wanted to talk about the road to sexual mastery because I can see and just feel that you two have a wealth of information and knowledge around this topic. I mentioned before we got on the recording, we talk a lot about communication, about setting an appropriate container and I don’t want to undermine the importance of that, which is why we talk about it so much on this show because I really think that all of the tips that you can read about in Cosmo don’t do anything for you if you don’t have that as a solid foundation.
However, I think you guys have a wealth of information also about those tips. So, I wanted to talk about some of the most common challenges that especially men can come up against in the bedroom, which the two most common ones are premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. Because I know that, that’s an area that the two of you work in and supporting men with. So, we don’t have a ton of time to dive into that before we go to a break, but why don’t we just start with one of them and let’s start with premature ejaculation. I saw something that you said on your website, which I thought was really, really fascinating when it comes to premature ejaculation about men have been training themselves to come too soon. I’d love to hear you say more about this.
Oh yes, they have. This goes all the way back to, you know when men are just a little boys and they’re discovering their penises and learning how to masturbate because usually what they’re doing is hiding in the bathroom or hiding in their bedroom, trying not to get caught, hoping mom doesn’t walk in. And what that does is, it trains them to ejaculate as quickly as they can. And just like anything else, however you train is how you’re going to do it in real life. So if you were going to train for a sport, if you wanted to train for a marathon and all you ever did was run five miles, well you’re not really going to be able to run a marathon are you? Because you’ve never done it right, you’ve never actually gone the full marathon.
And the same thing here. So your body will actually get trained to ejaculate faster if all you ever do is hurry up, I got a couple of minutes. Or if you put on your porn movie and you go straight to the money shot and you masturbate really quick and then ejaculate, you’re literally training the response in your body to do that every time. And your body doesn’t know the difference between when you’re masturbating by yourself with some porn and when you’re actually having sex with a partner, and so the same result happens.
Yeah. So, let’s talk about porn for a second because I’m curious to hear your take on it. I have some opinions about it. I think that we’ve done ourselves a huge cultural disservice, especially in the world of sex, with the ubiquitous consumption of porn. And I think there’s also probably some good porn out there, but I’m curious to hear your take on it.
Sure. So I think it’s not a black and white situation. It’s never what, it’s more of the how. And so how do you use porn? Can you masturbate without porn and be happy or do you have to have porn in order to be aroused and into the mood. And then what kind of porn do you watch? And then do you get less turned on when you are in real life situation because you’re so used to having so many images or a certain type of woman that’s not real, that when you’re with the real deal it doesn’t do it for you. Or do you use porn sometimes to discover new things about yourself, new things about your desires or kinks or to initiate a conversation with your partner? So again, I think it can be used both ways and it depends on how you use it.
Agreed and I think that’s a really beautiful perspective to have. And I think that I’m really grateful to hear you say it because I think oftentimes, we can get into this black and white, and then we see this, it’s huge in our culture in general right now, this polarization of opposites and I’m all about that middle walk. How can we find a balance without making something right or wrong, but using it as a tool and using it responsibly?
Yeah. I would also add too that not all porn is created equal, right? So there’s a lot of porn that if you watch, sends very bad signals, right? In other words, it teaches you bad behavior in relationships. It teaches you bad sexual technique. It teaches you a bunch of things that just aren’t good. And if you watch enough of it and you start to emulate it, you’re going to have bad relationships and bad sex. But that doesn’t mean all porn is that way. And there are some things that could actually be good from it. So we’re not against it. We’re not necessarily for it either. We just, like Celine said, it’s really all in how you use it.
Yeah. Okay. So, we do have to go to a quick break and before we go, I would love for you to share with our listeners where they can go to find out more about you and your work and your podcast and all that good stuff.
All right, so if you are a man who wants to last longer or have harder erections or develop your sexual skills, go to powerandmastery.com, that’s where you can find all about our courses. And then if you want to really dive in into all the free stuff we’ve created, we have something called the sex vault, and that’s available on my site at celineremy.com and this is everything we’ve ever created that’s for men, women, couples, single. You’ll find something for you in the sex vault to help you upgrade your sex life.
And don’t forget our podcast, the Love Lab Podcast, which airs every Thursday, and you can find it on all the major outlets. It’s on YouTube, Spotify, Stitcher.
iTunes, everywhere.
All the good things.
All the usual places you find podcasts.
Yeah. Awesome. So, we’re talking with Celine Remy, and Kevin Anthony about the road to sexual mastery. More when we get back, stay tuned.
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