Hello, everyone and welcome to the Sex, Love and SuperPowers podcast show. I’m your host Tatiana Berindei, and today I have a very fun and exciting guest with me, Miss Patty Alfonso. We are going to be discussing how to love ourselves into an orgasmic life. Let me tell you a little bit about Patty and why this is the perfect topic to be discussing with her.
Patty Alfonso is the orgasmic body whisperer, a master facilitator, a renowned coach, and bestselling author. Patty’s a sought after motivational speaker, writer, and teacher across the globe who has notably changed the lives of thousands. Patty has spoken in front of royalty, government officials, thought leaders, and influencers around the world.
Her pole dancing for consciousness method is a cutting edge approach that transforms the lives of attendees, helping them move beyond pain and limitation by accessing the amazing power of the body to heal itself. The process helps people discover how to improve the mind and body, dramatically enhancing their physical being, business careers, emotional intimacy, and their relationship with self and others.
She is the author of the number one international bestselling books Your Body as the Creation of Consciousness and Dancing as the Body of Consciousness. She also hosts the weekly TV show Orgasmic Living, where she helps listeners to unlock the innate wisdom stored in their bodies as well as to embrace living orgasmically.
So welcome to the show, Patty.
Yay. Thank you so much for having me. I just feel like I just got super bubbly and giggly hearing you read my bio. So thank you.
You’re welcome. Before we dive into this really fun and fantastic topic, will you tell our listeners what your superpowers are?
Yes. That’s such an amazing question.
It’s a fun one.
It really is. And I was so grateful that this question was going to come up. And it also came with a little joke for me because I want to say my superpower is I hear bodies. But then immediately, it came with I also hear dead people, from The Sixth Sense.
Right.
I was like, “Oh my gosh. I should be totally creepy about it.”
So my super power is supersonic hearing. I can hear your body talking. I can hear all kinds of things that the normal ear, it does not hear, which can be super fun as well as super intense.
Yeah. So tell us a little bit more about what that experience is like. How do you hear what someone’s body is saying? If you and I are talking like this right now and you can’t see me, can you still hear what my body is saying, or is this like you’re reading visual cues?
Yeah. It’s a little bit of everything and it’s not the easiest thing to explain.
Sure.
And I said hear because I think that that’s a word that a lot of people can connect with. But for me, really, it’s about perceiving the energy of them.
Yeah. That makes perfect sense.
And receiving information. Yeah. Which does not have to happen in person. You and I had a little, right before we started, where you let me know that you know you’re with child. And I immediately perceived that being, and including that being in this conversation, like it added a different energy. So it doesn’t have to be in person. I can perceive you. I can receive your body. I can know what is going on with you, with your body. Sometimes, this superpower, it’s sometimes even before you know what’s going on.
Yeah.
It’s an awareness that comes that is there.
I can totally relate. I’ve had that experience with clients on distance sessions where it’s like I can feel what’s happening in their body. I can feel them tense up. They’re thousands of miles away.
Yeah..
But I can perceive it, I can feel it, I can sense it.
And sometimes, it can even be easier without physical sight.
Visual distraction. Yeah.
Exactly.
I’m hearing entities. I’m hearing the earth. I’m hearing the nature spirits. I’m present with all of those energies.
Yeah.
And sometimes, I have to close my eyes to get really present with all of the energies and with everything, because it’s not just like I’m hearing your body. I’m hearing all bodies.
Yeah.
I’m hearing entities. I’m hearing the earth. I’m hearing the nature spirits. I’m present with all of those energies. I’m perceiving all of that. So sometimes, just closing my eyes helps. That’s why long distance sessions can be so much more powerful.
Yeah.
And when being with the body, in-person sessions are really important as well because our bodies love to be touched and our bodies require that physical touch. So it’s a little bit of everything.
Yeah. So how did you get into this work, the orgasmic body whisperer?
Oh my goodness. Long journey. I got into this work through my own personal journey. I came into this world with a desire to contribute to the shift in the consciousness of our planet and our world. And I just came into the world with that. I want to help change the world, right? It was just something that was there.
And through my own journey with my own body, then that guided me to where I am today. I would not be doing what I’m doing today if it wasn’t for the gift and the contribution that my body has been to my life. Now, I am someone who has experienced a lot of abuse, physical, sexual, emotional, mental, spiritual, financial. You name it, I’ve had it in my life. And so my journey through that, beyond that, to the other side is what has just opened up the door for me to be this guide, facilitator for other people. And it really has been with the guidance of my body and my body leading the way. Yeah.
So say more about that. How does your body lead the way?
Our bodies function from total consciousness, right? Our bodies have an innate wisdom and geniuses. Our bodies also perceive energy. That’s one of the gifts of the body, right?
And so because of the abuse, I had cut myself off from my body and I was pretty much functioning from the head up all of the time. And in my healing journey, in my journey towards really finding pleasure in embodiment, right, pleasure in being with my body. Because in the very first, what, 30 years of my life, being in this body was like torture.
Right.
And so in my journey, discovering the gift that my body actually could be to me and to my life, flipping that from, okay, having a body, being in this body is horrible, this place sucks, people are mean, all that shit, all that abuse, right, and then flipping that to what is actually the gift of having a body and my body’s consciousness and wisdom is what has guided me, because there’s a lot of things that happened. If you would have told me five years ago, 10 years ago, that I would have been creating a life and a business around living orgasmically, I would have run and hid in the closet and never wanted to come out.
Yeah.
I would have been like, “Yeah, right.” If you would have told me that I could create something around pole dancing, I would have just laughed in your face and run and hide and that was that. And it’s the consciousness of my body that keeps inviting me to more. Does that make sense?
Totally. It makes total sense.
Yeah. I know I’m speaking to my peeps here when I’m talking to you, but I always have to check in like, “Do you get what I’m saying? Do you have any questions?”
Yeah. Totally. And I like to ask questions that I might have a sense of, but that our listeners might not. So I like to expand the conversation for everyone who’s tuning in too.
I love it.
I want to talk more about pole dancing, but we do have to go to a quick break. Can you tell our listeners where they can go to find out more about you and orgasmic living and everything you’re up to?
Yes. They can go to my website, PattyAlfonso.sexy. And there’s a free gift there, Six Keys to Living an Orgasmic Life, and they can find out everything that I’m up to on that website. So thank you.
Awesome. Awesome. Yes. So we’re talking with Patty Alfonso about how to love ourselves into an orgasmic life. This is going to get juicy, so you don’t want to go anywhere. Stay tuned.
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