Eyal MatsliahDid you know that you have access to consciousness and states of awareness you never dreamt possible – through your orgasms? In this episode, SLSP host Tatiana Berindei and “Orgasm Unleashed” author Eyal Matsliah pull back the covers and reveal some secret techniques that will rock your universe. If you have sensed that maybe there is something beyond the “wham, bam, thank you ma’am” model of sex, then you’ll be overjoyed by what you discover in this interview. So if you’ve been curious about ejaculation control, energetic orgasms and more, listen in to this very special episode.

Hello, everyone and welcome to the Sex, Love, and SuperPowers Podcast Show. I’m your host, Tatiana Berindei and today I have a very special guest with me, Eyal Matsliah, and we are going to be discussing access to consciousness through orgasm. This is going to be a very juicy show. 

Let me tell you a little bit about Eyal before we get started. He describes himself as a polymath ecstatic dance DJ, dansual teacher, and tantric life coach. Eyal lives life to the fullest and has had successful careers or businesses in the field of sexuality, dance, conscious business, coaching, technology, photography, food business, and more. He empowers holistic fempreneurs to unleash their full potential in love, life, and business.

Eyal creates ecstatic dance music journeys intended to connect people to more of themselves and others. Eyal’s best-selling book, Orgasm Unleashed, was endorsed by leading female sexual educators and described as, “the best female orgasm book I’ve ever read and my pleasure bible.” He lives in, Amsterdam, Bali, and travels around the world. And I am so, so, so grateful that so late at night over there for you, you are here with us on the show today. So thank you.

Hey there, Tatiana. I’m happy to be here. And I’m happy that It’s my updated bio. I think that’s the first time I’m using this updated bio. 

Oh, good. 

It’s been changing, so I’m happy to share who I am right now in May 2019.

Wonderful. So before we dive into this incredible topic of accessing consciousness through orgasm, will you please tell our listeners what your super powers are?

Sometimes it's not about the pushing towards change, it's about relaxing to change and change inevitable

Sometimes it’s not about the pushing towards change, it’s about relaxing to change and change inevitable.

Yes, kind of like my.. And I love the question, I love this idea of super power and I grew up, but in some ways, I didn’t and it’s nice to be kids and play with superpowers. I was inclined to first say my ability to learn something new and get into that and start offering this as a service or a product and charge for it, very fast. And that’s what you included in the bio, so I have done a lot of things in my life and I have got into completely new fields and created things in them and changed them, changed industries sometimes, as in change the industry from within.

But this is kind of like secondary to a deeper super power which is the ability to change. I, the ability to change my mind, to change my perception of myself, of others, and of the world: Change beliefs, change actions, change patterns. And not even change them but allow them to change, because sometimes it’s not about the pushing towards change, it’s about relaxing to change and change inevitable. So I feel this is really the… This is a deeper super power. And yeah, and that allows me to go into photography or go into DJing or go into dance or going into all of those realms. 

And I love that you’re claiming it as a super power because I think oftentimes, especially in western culture, there can be sort of this notion that if you do a bunch of different things, then you’re not good at any of them.

That’s an old idea.

It’s a total BS. It’s a total BS because I’m like you. I’m like, “I do all of these millions of things, and I’m great at all of them and that’s possible.” And it’s because we allow ourselves to explore and have our minds changed.


Yeah and by the way, there’s a book called How To Be Everything based on a TED Talk, something like if you still haven’t find your life purpose, this is for you. So it’s for people who really have more than life purpose. So I watched the TED Talk and I literally cried. It was like, “Okay why didn’t anybody come and tell me this 30 years ago?” Because all my life I heard it’s a call, you have to focus, like you too extreme. Like you do one thing and then forget about it and you do something else and you should stick with something.


So yeah, it’s a really good book based on that TED Talk.

That sounds like my kind of thing. I actually had a very similar experience. I know we’re off-topic right now but for anyone who’s listening out there, for anyone who’s listening out there who has been told their entire life that they’re supposed to do just one thing and have believed that there’s something wrong with them, if they don’t just pick one track and stick to it, there’s nothing wrong with you. I’d had the same experience. I watched a TED Talk about multipotentiality it was called.

Oh, my God, I'm not broken

Oh, my God, I’m not broken.

That’s the one, that’s the one.

And I cried.

Multipotentialite, that’s the one.

I was like, “Oh, my God, I’m not broken.” This is a thing, this is just another kind of genius. So liberating. So yeah, go watch the TED Talk on multipotentialites if you’re one of those people listening to this. Okay, I just got really excited. I’m super passionate about that.  

So one of the things that I really want to dive in with you about and of course, we have to go to break in two minutes so I’m just going to give a little teaser and I’m not going to have you talk about it until after we get back from break. When we get back from break we are going to be diving into specifically the male orgasm and how men can have orgasms without ejaculating. This is a very passionate topic of mine and one that I’ve been really wanting to talk about and I know you have a lot of expertise in so I’m super excited to go there with you today. 

And women, by the way, and how women can have crazy, amazing orgasmic, both men and women can have orgasmic states and different kinds of orgasms. It’s not just one thing.


Physical, emotional, energetic, spiritual, different chakras, different elements.


Different experiences without touch, without penetration, without a partner, with a partner, anything.

Oh, yeah, we’re going to go there. We’re going to dive into all of it. Women being able to ejaculate and men not ejaculating and orgasm happening. All that good stuff. We’re going to go there today, folks. So this is going to be such a good one. But we do have to go to a quick break, so before we do that will you please tell our listeners where they can go to find out more about you and your work? 

Yeah, so intimatepower.com. So intimate like intimacy, not like the internet. So intimatepower.com, that’s where there’s a lot and there’s also awakeningfemalepleasure.com, orgasmunleashed.com. Orgasm Unleashed is a book and awakening female pleasure is to teach men how to communicate and connect with women and we can talk more about this later.

Oh, awesome. Okay, yeah, we’re going to. All right, so if you haven’t already figured out, this is going to be a really juicy conversation that you don’t want to miss, so stay tuned. We’ll be right back.

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Music Credit: All instruments played by Amanda Turk. Engineered and produced by Tatiana Berindei and Daniel Plane