Creating Your Miraculous Life
When will you start creating your miraculous life? Do you believe that you can control the way you perceive life? In this episode of Incorporating Superpowers, host Justin Recla and guest Wendy Darling talk about Wendy’s book Creating Your Miraculous Life. She wrote the book during the high time of the pandemic where almost everyone was experiencing many issues in life, whether in terms of health, family, or personal. The book reminds us always to remember that no matter how chaotic the situation is, the power to control our perception of life lies in our hands. Tune in and learn more about Wendy as a coach that helps individuals heal their past wounds.
Justin Recla:
Welcome back to Incorporating Superpowers. Today’s conversation’s going to be one that, well, some of you might be feeling this way. Some of you might be at a point in your life where you just don’t know if it’s working out for you. You don’t know what comes next. You might be feeling a little bit overwhelmed. You might feel a little underwhelmed. But regardless, there might be this feeling that, is it too late? Is it too late for you to really create the life that you want? Is it too late? You’re too old, or whatever story it is that you have that might be holding you back. Is it too late for us? My guest today happens to be a dear friend of mine, Wendy Darling.
Justin Recla:
She is the author of “Create Your Miraculous Life: It’s Never Too Late“. She’s an absolutely wonderful person who has… She’s trapped in, folks. She knows, well, she just knows how to connect with others. She knows how to guide them in finding their path and being who they’re meant to be. I’ve known Wendy for quite some time. She’s really good friends with our daughter as well. They’ve done some really cool things together, and with Stedman Graham and the CAYSorganization. She is just an all-around amazing person, and I’m just excited to have her here and share some of her experiences about what went into creating this book and, and how she’s helping people. Wendy, thank you so much for being here today.
Wendy Darling:
Oh, Justin, it’s my absolute pleasure. You know, I love you, your whole family, and so I’m grateful that we get to spend some time together.
Justin Recla:
Yeah. It’s been a while. It’s COVID and everything’s changed everything and I know you’ve probably interacted with Neva a little bit more than in the past because of some of the stuff that you two have done together. But, oh, I want to, I just want to thank you for being here because I think the book that you’ve written and the work that you’re doing, and the experience that you shared with me, especially right before the show, it matters and people need to know that there are options out there. So, let’s just dive into it.
Wendy Darling:
Okay.
Justin Recla:
Create Your Miraculous Life. What’s it about?
Wendy Darling:
Well, it really started last year and maybe even sooner than that, I had the inner stirrings as I was watching my numbers increase, meaning my age, and I knew that there was going to be more than likely fewer steps in front of me than behind me, and last year it was becoming even more present. I was 69, rapidly approaching the 70, and by the way, I made it. It didn’t hurt. It’s all good. I, this was also in the midst of the pandemic and it was a time out for so many people facing new challenges, wondering what was even life, what life was even going to look like. So, the timing of this seemed even more significant, and what was really pulling my heartstrings more was my first book, which was titled The Miracle: That is Your Life.
Wendy Darling:
I managed to be guided into this conversation of living a miraculous life, which I never thought I would be a voice for. And, what was really interesting, so I’m feeling the pull to write this book. It’s last year, I’m rapidly approaching 70, and on top of it on top of the pandemic and all that has come about for most of us in a variety of ways. My son also became seriously ill last year, and as you might imagine, that required a lot of my time and attention, which I was more than happy to offer. So, the bottom line was my life was not feeling miraculous at all, and yet I’m feeling pulled to write this book. So, once again, I seem to find myself in a position where I really had to dig deep.
Wendy Darling:
Where was that place within me that could trust, that could have faith and hope that something better was going to come about, that something better was going to transpire for my son? And, by the way, I’m happy to say we’re cautiously optimistic, but he’s doing much better.
Justin Recla:
It’s good to hear.
Wendy Darling:
So, I wrote this book in the midst of a lot of personal turmoil, and it was probably in some ways, therapy for me. I interviewed certain people. I got some great stories, and so I knew that I was not alone in wondering what was going to be next, what was going to be possible. Also, for me, being 70 years old, I am nowhere near being done. I, the thought of retiring is like, what? I have so much I want to be doing and offering and contributing. I mean, that gives me life in all honesty, and I want that for other people as well. So, I’ve been blessed where I help people grow their businesses, make more money. I help singles attract love.
Wendy Darling:
I’ve worked with couples to replenish their relationship. I work with children who have learning disabilities and other challenges and be freed to it. I’ve worked with predominantly women who have been abused and in a very, very short time, they are free of that trauma. And I will say, and we can get more in-depth into this. I was previously, my life is prior to my accident, after my accident, prior to my accident, I was very traditional management and organizational development consultant. I had degrees. I had experience. I started my own business in 1981, so I’m in my 40th year, which is pretty amazing in my brain as well. After my accident, I was at the Dallas airport and sick. I was very, very sick. I went to just Cliff, bottom line this, I went outside the Dallas airport to get fresh air, and I passed out. I fell over a ledge and I fell approximately 25 feet.
Justin Recla:
Wow.
Wendy Darling:
I landed on my right leg. It was completely shattered. I had multiple surgeries over a course of about 10, 11 months. Didn’t know I was going to walk ever again until about month 10 or 11. Then, there was some time after that, and it’s when my marriage ended. My former husband packed suitcases, saying he no longer wished to be married. And even though I take full responsibility for my portion that contributed to that decision, we might agree that the timing was not exactly optimal. Not that it ever really is, but I really broke into a whole lot of pieces when we went to court. My former husband was an attorney and he was awarded full custody of our son who was only four and a half. It was my mom who taught me how to meditate, and out of that, there was obviously more detail, but out of that experience of starting to learn how to meditate, I began to receive and cultivate my healing gifts, and my, what is now my complete transformational system, The Miraculous Living Method, where I can find anything interfering, holding you back. We can shift things very easily. There is a brain-training component, and the bottom line is we can close that gap from where you are to where you want to be in a much easier and faster way.
Justin Recla:
I agree, Wendy, you have such an amazing story of where you came from, what you’ve been through, what you’ve experienced, and on the other side, and you’ve written a book about it, which I just, I think is amazing. Before we go on break, because I want to dive into this a little bit more on the back end of what this looks like to create your own miraculous life, and where can people go find more information about your book?
Wendy Darling:
Oh, that’s easy. First of all, the book is available, both books are available on Amazon, both in Kindle and paperback. My website is Wendydarling.com, and on my website, you can listen to an audio that can give you some information about how you can live, love, and lead. There’s a little assessment that can help you assess your RQ, which is your relationship quotient, how you interact, interface with yourself and others. But, it’ll also give you access to my emails, and right now I’m interviewing people and sharing stories about their miraculous moments to hopefully inspire others, and as well as, get information about upcoming programs.
Justin Recla:
Fantastic. Folks, go take a look at the book. Go take a look at what Wendy’s doing in the world. Join her in that space, so you can create your own miraculous life and stay with us. When we get back for the break, we’re going to dive into some of the steps, some of the things that you need to do, some things that you need to examine in order for you to make that possible. Stay with us. We’ll be right back.
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