Being transparent with Jennifer Urezzio is all about showing up authentically. It’s becoming more and more important to show up fully in both our personal and business existence.
Hello this is Tonya Dawn Recla your Super Power Expert. I am very excited to have with us today Jennifer Urezzio, who developed Soul Language. This is really, really a fun thing to talk about so you’re in for a treat today. In addition to that she is an expert in the intuitive ability to help people move through that stuff and just delightful to chat with.
And you’re going to hear that here in just a moment as you connect with her energy. So, I invite you to really just take a deep breath and step back and listen because this is going to be a fun conversation folks. Jennifer, welcome to the show.
Thank you. Such an honor to be here and I’m so excited.
Very cool. We’re excited to have you.
So you know what I like to do with all the guests is throw you right into the mix and ask what are your Super Powers?
Well, I have got a couple, one is I’m consciously transparent and I think when you’re consciously transparent it really allows you to feel safe being vulnerable and that allows people to then feel safe being vulnerable.
And the second one is Liquid Nitrogen, I have this ability to in a couple seconds really focus in on the challenge and really get to the heart of the matter fairly quickly and sometimes I don’t even know I’m doing it. So those are two really good ones. I would love the super power to you know play with time. So I’m working on that one more. You know it is that very question I would ask every date that I ever encountered. You know I’d ask “What’s your superpower?” and most men would say to fly and I’d be like oh that’s so boring.
Hahah there are so many better ones.
I know I’m like really because mine is to like to manipulate time moving front, backwards, going past and future like come on. You know that’s the one I’m leaning towards working on. But you know my true ones are unconsciously transparent and I’m like liquid nitrogen.
Very cool. Well, I love that yeah we have a few folks who are very successfully working with time manipulation. And you know that time space continuum once it gets collapsed it’s a lot of fun to play with dimensionally. So, you’re speaking our language for sure. I like being consciously transparent I have to tell you; oh I’m learning to eradicate that from my verbiage but I am I’m telling you that transparency conversation is so interesting. You know in my former life I lived in a not so transparent environment in the spy arena. And ultimately that led to me leaving that environment because you know there’s a journey into transparency and authenticity was a little bit counterintuitive too to that lifestyle and so I really appreciate the conversation and especially how you compare those two words are the consciously transparent. There’s a very specific reason for that and a love the power behind that specific phrase so thank you, for that.
You are so welcome.
Thank you. So how did you come to be this person who is willing to stand up and say you know what I am here you know this is what I do. This is what I stand for. What was your journey like in that regard?
You know I think that. For me that part I was actually born with. And remember being a 12 year olds in my father’s saying “Respect your elders” and I said “When they earn it” you know. Now I think what the journey for me has been to feel safe doing so and to fully accept that I could be profoundly loved for doing so. You know remember being in corporate America and I was a great manager but I couldn’t manage up and that’s because I would tell people the truth. And now I get paid for that which is groovy.
I think my journey has been one of really profoundly accepting who I am for understanding my gifts and talents. And to learn not to take myself so seriously. You know I have warrior energy. You called me I think “delightful” and I giggled because that’s not a word to describe myself.
Hahaha…Right.
And so it it’s really about you know exploring all those parts of you and really allowing for that profound respect and self-love, and we all roll our eyes at self-love because it’s so undefinable, but to really allow that to come through and I think that came by just really sitting in deep conversation with my soul and what I call my higher self…. I hope that answers the question?
Oh, absolutely and it’s so refreshing. I often hear words coming out of my mouth along the lines of you know people are starving for that connection for the connection to themselves. For proof that it’s possible, that it’s OK, that it’s safe to do. And I do I do feel very strongly that those of us who have reached certain levels of awareness have a social responsibility to step up in that way.
You know as we learn more and more how energy works and how we perceive in others. You can’t hide the journey that you’ve done so the levels of awareness that you have and the consciousness level that you’re at.
And when people feel that from someone and then they look at them and that person is not showing up fully or they’re somehow being small then it continues to perpetuate this idea that it’s not safe.
Yeah. We can do that we have to adhere that we have to you know sit in our little boxes and stay there and so you know to me it truly is delightful, though, that you are willing to do that and you step up and do that. You know I learned to appreciate more and more the people who do that. So, thank you!
Well, thank you. I mean, you know honestly I don’t think it was a choice. Meaning yes I had to choose to participate. I there was no other way for me. Right. So you now those aren’t my main concerns fears. You know often when I train people they’ll go “Well how do you trust that what you’re getting is right?” And its real question that I kind of have to you know say, “OK, God what do I tell them?” Because I never had that kind of issue. I’m like “I don’t know how do you not trust it.” You know if it is right it just is. But there’s but there’s a practicing of it and there’s an understanding of your own database. Now, I often get information on an intuitive level you know through science fiction references or cartoons that’s my database. I love that. You know, and so then I have to interpret what that means for the client and then also I’ll get a word or I’ll get an image and I’ll go “I don’t really know what that means, do you?” and they tell me yes it means this or that.
Oh that’s wonderful Yeah. It’s so fascinating how those things come about something you said though catalyzed a question for me and so do you think you reach a point of no return for people? Like where you kind of get past a certain point and you’re just not going backwards like you’re going to show up that way fully. Because I catch myself saying that to some of our members and our clients and it feels like truth in that moment and at the same time I know that we can connect with you know various dimensions and aspects of ourselves. So, these days I am leaning towards that whole “point of no return.”
It’s that moment in the matrix once you take the blue pill or whatever pill it is when you wake up yet you can do it. You know and I think that’s true. You know once you have a sense of connection there is kind of you know no going back. Once you look at a situation anyway it’s already changed that consciousness is changed. Yeah we can all dip back in until you know those patterns but they’re still not the same pattern that you did from the original moment before you were aware. I don’t think that theirs is a going back. It’s like it’s almost like asking me in a sense when I think about it like OK so you learn to read. So, tomorrow are you going to, say you’re in good physical health, just forget how to read? No.
There is a point especially when we’re awake where it becomes, where you hit a plateau before your next expansion and the plateau will go “Oh I’m not expanding or I’m not intuitive anymore” because it’s reached a stage where you’re embodied. And then what will happen which is what happened to me is I called up a friend like 10 years ago and go “Oh I’m not intuitive anymore.” So, she asked me a question and I of course answer right away and she says “Oh, yeah you’re I know you’re not intuitive anymore, right.” It was so integrated and embodied that it didn’t feel any different. Then I got to
expand again and then I get to see where I feel separate which is that the tall tale sound of the expansion. Right. That’s how you choose to expand by seeing where you’re just connected. And then I got to expand again I think yeah I don’t think that you can go back ever. You know there’s the saying used you can’t go back home again. In a sense because you can’t live the same thing have the same experience exactly the same way. Exactly. Again and again and again it’s always going to be a little different.
Well there’s two concepts I think that really throw people off. And so I hear a lot of people they get addicted to the you know working through things and so they’re like “Well, but I didn’t learn this lesson, so it’s showing up again” and I’m like well you know along that theory. No, it’s just a spiral isn’t it? You’re never the same person, like we’re not even the same people we were when we started this conversation because now our energies have merged and converge and we can get to feel into that. Things change and we get to meet together in that.
That can be fixed to: And so it does alter things. And then there is this concept called “the dangle” where the universe kind of dangles the carrot in front of you. Well, I think that when our knowingness goes ahead it glimpses what’s possible. But then there’s work. You know you have to pick up the pieces you have to go back and find, you know, if you get triggered in something you’ve got to go kind of work through that piece. But I don’t think “the dangle” really important because that’s what motivates us to push through the work that has to be done. And I do see those two specific pieces with people and them translating those into the argument that they’ve gone backwards. You know somebody told me one day they got ripped out of consciousness and I’m like “Oh well that’s a really interesting theory” you know and I’m feeling into it going “Can that happen? Is that possible?”. And my bias is that we just exist in many places simultaneous and we get to choose where we associate. But I but I like your take on it and I tend to agree with that too, that there’s no there’s no you can’t.
In fact, there was a point in time where I think if someone would’ve came to me and said “You know I am selling this opportunity to plug back into the matrix.” I think I would have done it.
Oh yes there is always an opportunity where that happens. Every highly aware person says, and I don’t mean this in a judgmental way, right. But every highly aware person says “Wait, wasn’t easier when I wasn’t aware?” Like I want to go back. But that moment is usually one of those great kind of expansion moments and I think, you know and I’ll roll my eyes at people, and I’ve said “Hey, I’ve worked on that?” it’s like Ok, big deal you worked on it, this is obviously one of your great challenges. This is what helps you choose consciousness let go away. I think you know there is a way of doing spirituality. That’s kind of drive by.
And then there’s a way of being embodied by it. And I think a lot of them do it drive by and are kind of lip service and you know they do it with their head rather than doing it with their heart and being soulful about it. And yeah I’ll probably say it again I’ve worked on this. But that’s an indication of “Wait here’s another place where I feel separate.” You know and I’ve learned in a sense too you know and I can see the change you know how it’s expanded over the years of being aware and going “Oh, so I should be upset about this but I’m not. Interesting.” And you know when we come from a place of profound curiosity we can really be in the consciousness of neutrality which is that half the world is happening through you not at you or to you.
Right! Well, and I call it the post test. You know every time we get clarity around something we’re always given an opportunity to have conviction around it. And it’s interesting something was presented to me a while back about the idea that once you kind of work through something then we get the opportunity to either snuff it out or illuminate it. And I thought that was such an interesting idea because I do see a lot of people get stuck right after they’ve worked through it and “I’m like why are you circling this like there’s nothing there for you anymore it’s totally superficial what is going on here?” and I think we get stuck in the choice of that. So snuffing it out results in it’s gone.
Yeah.
You did it don’t worry about it, and illuminating it is what you’re going to teach. It it’s an opportunity for you to help others who experience the same thing. And I find people really don’t want to make that choice. So, they just sit in a circle and you’re like “You worked through that and you’re literally done, you are done with this. There’s no residue, like I’m looking there’s nothing buried there it’s literally superficial.” “What are you doing?”
You know and it really is. Like they’re afraid to choose to just let it go completely because what if there’s an opportunity missed. And then they also don’t want to illuminate it because that feels like responsibility and so they sit in limbo. It’s like it’s just a choice you know.
Yeah, you know being conscious and being spiritual takes courage and it’s not for the faint of heart. And you know it does take awareness and I think sometimes we don’t want to kind of snuff something out because we’re afraid that that’s going to alienate us from the people that we love. Right. Or you know put us in the spotlight in some way and because it’s sometimes uncharted territory and what we know is easier and sometimes it’s just muscle memory. It’s really about being present and then understanding what’s the internal action and the external action to take for your greatest good. Which means it’s in the greatest good of everyone on this planet whether we realize it or not.
And then everybody goes into paralysis with these big deer in the headlights look like aaaaahhhh.
So I absolutely agree completely with everything you said. Let’s talk a little bit about your modalities. Like how did you get to kind of playing with the Soul Languages and what does that look like for you?
I got it by asking some really big questions. I was really angry. I felt really alone and I went to this conference where I was speaking and this woman sat down next to me and said, “We’re going to be friends” and I was like I totally get that. And then my inside voice went “Why me? Why not this other woman across the way because I don’t care if I ever see her again.” What is that? And through divine inspiration I heard “Oh, that’s soul language” and I said OK I don’t know what that is but I’m going to keep asking questions and before long I had this paradigm to put some tangibility to soul, not to put anybody in a box but to understand and really describe your essential nature so you can connect with it in a powerful way.
So you can understand where you’re in the struggle, and how to move from struggle to consciousness and what language does is as a living breathing paradigm. There’s a 107 core energies of soul, we each speak three of course three different categories, so one in each of the categories which there are three there your language in this lifetime, they do not change. I can give a one liner to every soul on this planet and that allows you to kind of use that as a guidepost. “Ok, my one liner is I create balance for myself and others through love, integrity, and courage.”
So if I’m not being or doing that for myself each day my life is going to be struggle. It could be subtle struggle or it can be really in your face but it’s going to be struggle. And then when people have that one liner, I hear this all the time “Oh my god are you in my head?” or “Oh my god I can accept this.” People who have been on the path for years. Right. Or “Oh my God now I have words to put what I know deep down inside. I can actually name it.” And so it becomes this this way of really deeply connecting and then forming a deeper connection with that soul your soul so you can ask questions and receive answers. You’re doing it anyway. We’re putting some structure and some tangibility to it so it becomes easier.
Very cool. That’s beautiful and a really see the value in that because so many people are sitting in the space of just not knowing. And they want their own tagline you know their own mantra and their own slogan, if you will, because that it does give you a base to come home to. And I think that that’s such a powerful tool to help people and until you teach people how to do this correct.
Yeah. I teach master healers; you know spiritual leaders how to use this delivery system in their own sacred work. And here’s the thing my sacred work is not Soul Language. It’s a delivery system. My sacred work is to alleviate suffering through connection. I use Soul Language to do that. So often you know really talented people don’t understand what their sacred purposes is and don’t really understand what delivery systems that resonate with them. So, they get caught in the how so that allows them to kind of what we do is, I spend time teaching soul language to them and then really going through with them what’s their secret purpose how they’re going to use Soul Language to support that sacred purpose. And so now we have people doing Soul Language and money, and Soul Language and body, Soul Language in parenting. You know so it’s a profound tool that anyone can use personally or within their business to support expansion. I love doing it because it’s taught like nothing else is taught. Yes, there’s a book and blah blah blah. But what we do is we introduce you to the 107 core energies of soul. And you learn it energetically.
Very cool. Awesome, and then are there any modalities or something you learned prior to moving into using soul language?
I learned hand analysis I can do Pranic healing. You know what I really love to do is listen to people and then go “Oh, here’s how I can adapt it in this instance” I never throw any tool out because I know that you know a full tool box is very valuable. But Soul Language is it. I’m also a master prayer writer so I use affirmative prayer which is spiritual mind treatments as well. That’s a tool that I use personally and then for others.
Very cool.
Well awesome. So, you know obviously know that you’re here to assist in the world but beyond that are you are you tapping into kind of this collaborative, collective, synergistic movement or are you pairing up with other people? How are you kind of moving that conversation beyond… I mean obviously you have such a huge mission anyway. I’m not I hope I’m not suggesting that it’s small in any way shape or form. But the little that I’ve gotten to know you I’m sure that there is an inkling of things there on the horizon.
Are there other you know people that you’re joining up with or just connections that you’re making and you have clarity I guess is really the question I’m asking around how all those tie together.
You know it’s funny. Ten to one you’re a pioneer or a motivator because pioneers and motivators always ask me that question!! and I go oooohh you guys. I love you guys. You know I want Soul Language to be the resource of Soul. So you know what that looks like is really stepping into a bigger spotlight for me it’s educating more practitioners. That’s kind of the vision. You know I also believe how we transform the world is by transforming ourselves and then offering that out into the world.
And right now you know the United States is going through one giant spiritual practice. So we all get to get on board. You know so that’s how that is. I think that the key for this is, yes, to have a big vision and then to really do one step at a time. And so my favorite question each day is “Ok, what do you want me to know today. What do I do today.” Or “What a way do I be today.” Because you know that leads me to you know replying to an e-mail that I saw about the show, that prompts me to call this person, that prompts me to do this and so on. So, I’m the facilitator in the leadership council for the local Center of Spiritual Living in Morristown, New Jersey. And I got this retail magazine called Insight and I read this article I’m like “Oh, my god. I need to talk to this woman” and I sent her an e-mail and I just got off the phone a couple hours ago with her and I was like OK and I was like one of the best conversations in my life.
Very cool.
And she’s like she’s like she creates candles I mean she does so much more. Than a million years by following that. OK. You got to reach out to her you know. And I kind of spent time you know in my younger life going “Well, what if she doesn’t respond” “What if she thinks you are crazy?” blah blah. So, I just did it and let it go. And it resulted in like this amazing thing. You know I think that that’s the way to create a big vision; and let’s be honest my vision is like so tiny compared with the White God. That’s what I call my higher power. So, I’m just kind of trying to put silly human words to my life and really make a difference for myself and others. And then at the end of the day if I do that for one person including myself I think it’s a pretty good day.
Oh absolutely and I love that you talk about it in that fashion because I’m a big fan of the whole kind of Tribal Leadership book and they even talk about it in there where you know they saw a big difference between people that they contacted to talk to about the book and where people were sitting developmentally because the ones who really are in that collaborative synergistic space are like “Yeah, this feels right.”
Let’s have a conversation versus the ones who are still kind of trying to find their footing in the world are like “Well, what are you doing and why do you want to talk to me. Well what’s in it for me?” and all this stuff. And I find that interesting. And me personally and I don’t know if it’s just where I’m sitting now or if it truly is reflective of the collective as a whole but, I find more and more and more people really willing to meet in that space saying yeah. I don’t know why but let’s talk. Let’s see what happens. You know let’s just explore that together versus the old like what’s in it for me kind of conversation or maybe that’s just who I’m attracting.
Yeah it’s the last one you just said. I think you should like Pat yourself on the back for that one because I think that’s really a reflection of what’s going on inside.
Look don’t destroy my dreams and hope that the world changing.
I mean I think it is because you’re changing it right. And the people around you are changing you know. And I think that it comes from the kind of. The grounds you know the pioneers the people that are up for the innovators first and then it goes to the mass. The world is changing and consciousness is growing. Some of us are getting on the wagon pretty quickly and easily and some of us kind of need a little more prompting.
To get dragged by the wagon you know. Hahaha
And I kind of know that the divine Universe tree Bob, God whatever you’re going to call it.
Bob? Haha
I had a client call it Bob.
Hahahah…That’s perfect
I know it’s perfect, right? I did an event and by the end of it all the people were calling it Bob, this one lady was like “I’m going to go home to talk about Bob to my husband.”
Oh I love it. Perfect. Perfect.
You know that I’m sure that Bob knows what he’s doing. You know we love Catholic, right. So, you know I have to just ask what’s my part. And then you know Trust that’s humanity really does have a soulful heart and really does want the best in the world and really does is compassionate and loving and caring and all of those things. And I have to start with me.
I love it. I love it and as much as I don’t want to move on to the last question in honor of our time together. And this is that kind of live in the power idea, we’ve uncovered so much of that already in this very short time together. Do you have a specific story you’d like to share with our listeners about you know what it is like when you get an intuitive hit, and then you take action, and what results from that.
Yeah. First of all, I want everyone to know that no one has any like every everyone has the same amount of power as everyone else on this planet. It’s how you focus it. Because when you understand that then you can start to play with it. You know it’s so funny because now I live my life with it. I can point out the times where I don’t right. And so you know let me tell you a very funny story.
So several years ago I’m at the airport and my wallet is on the counter blinking at me and I’m like “No, no, no, I don’t have time to talk to you wallet. I got to get through security” and blah blah blah. So I get through security and I go to buy this water bottle at the stand where they are selling them and the water is blinking at me and “I’m like no I don’t have time to talk to you.” I got to get going. And I am like “Fine.” look in my purse to take out my wallet and it’s not there. It’s back on the counter. Oh my goodness. And I went back and it was all there and everything worked out fine.
There are so many times where we don’t listen. You know and I think that the thing that I really learned from that moment and how to step into the listening is just to pause one second longer and go “Ok what do I need to know today? What do I need to know here? What else is the situation want me to know? Meaning what else does my soul want me to know?” You know I think the biggest one, the most powerful one is, a friend of mine, it’s a long story, but a friend of mine put me on a dating Web site and I was there when she did it. And I was like “Whatever” my friend is like “You’re going to find your soul mate.” I’m like “Whatever.” And so I see this picture and I hear “reply” and I was like “No, I can’t see this guy’s eyes.” You know and I hear “Just reply” and I go “Fine.” and I do it. And we’ve been together 18 months. He’s my peep. He has the love of my life. Forty-five years waiting for this individual. And boom. And you know granted there was a little rock I was in resistance a little while not saying I was you know I just pausing and listening and then taking action. And I think what he’s doing is right. The reasons why people don’t do that is because they thought at one time that they listened and took action and it didn’t result in something positive. And now they feel like they can’t trust it. And it’s just about building up their trust again.
I agree. I agree those are great great examples. I love the airport one in particular. Yeah. That’s awesome. Well very cool we could absolutely talk for hours. Maybe we can do this again sometime we’ll choose the topic and mull it over together if you’re up for that.
I would be honored and I would think it would be a blast. Thank you.
Oh absolutely. I’ve enjoyed our very short time together but I know our listeners are going to want to know more about you and soul language. Where can we send them for that.
You can find me at soullanguage.us. There’s a bunch of free audios you can sign up for, a discovery session which is a free 15 minutes…that’s really 30 everyone don’t tell anyone, where we identify one of your soul languages. There’s some free gifts there. I’m on Twitter under Soul Language. I’m on Facebook under my name. I pick up my own phone and I answered my own e-mails which is crazy. But I do in this day and age and you know just reach out if you have a question. It’s really important that in order to kind of build that power base they you start asking and receiving from people that are safe to do so. So shoot me a line you know and I you know I’d be happy to discuss whatever you need.
Wonderful why I so appreciate you and I appreciate you sharing some time and space with me today. Thank you so much.
Thank you. It’s been an honor and a pleasure.
Very good. And all of you out there all of our listeners as always we appreciate your loyalty. And until next time go out and cover your super powers and change the world. Take care everyone.
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